What Does the Bible Say About Raising Children?

Scripture reveals that raising children requires both intentional spiritual formation and faithful correction, rooted in love rather than anger.

Scripture on Raising Children

Proverbs 22:6 Old Testament
"Start children off on the way they should go; even when they are old they will not depart from it."
Ephesians 6:4 New Testament
"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord."
Proverbs 29:15 Old Testament
"A rod and a reprimand impart wisdom, but a child left undisciplined disgraces its mother."
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 Old Testament
"These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."
Colossians 3:21 New Testament
"Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged."
The Bottom Line
Your job isn't to shape perfect kids—it's to point them toward God and model what that looks like, one day at a time.
Try Today

Have one conversation with your child about why you believe what you believe spiritually—not a lecture, just honest talk about what matters to you.

Prayer

Jesus invites us to bring our deepest needs before the Father with honest hearts (John 16:23-24).

Father, you entrusted me with these children, and I often feel unprepared for the weight of it. I want to shape their hearts toward you, but I get frustrated, impatient, and discouraged. Help me see them as you see them—precious, worth teaching carefully, worth correcting with kindness. Give me wisdom to know when to speak and when to listen. Guard me against bitterness and anger. Help me teach them your ways—not through perfection, but through honest faith. In Jesus' name, Amen.

📚 Read Proverbs 1-5 for practical wisdom on instruction, discipline, and the parent's role.

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